June 23, 2025
Good morning! For my readers in the Southern Hemisphere, your long dark winter is ending as light returns to brighten your dreary existences. Feel that?!Seems as if a July the #4 vibe has started ten days early — hastened in no small way by the 90+ degree days. Vintage cars are cruising up and down Main Street, motorcycle engines are fueled by testosterone, and watermelon is everywhere. It was a good week to have been long on hogs and short on their foods — corn, that is. Curious.
- The recipient of communication is, de facto, the best evaluator of its quality and effectiveness. (YT)
- Hardly anyone truly believes this — or practices it.
- Beware of circular logic…’
- “We’re hitting our targets!” Hooray.
- But, how were your targets established?
- When was the last time you searched for helpful hidden gems in your data to shed light on your circular logic?
- Too often, bosses discover why their stars leave when it’s too late to do anything about it.
- Ask them these four questions on a regular basis…visit with them in meaningful ways on a regular basis.
- When was the last time you almost quit?
- When was the most recent time that work didn’t feel like work?
- What trade-offs are you making to stay in this role?
- If this job disappeared tomorrow, what would you choose to do next? (Bernstein, Horn)
- Ask them these four questions on a regular basis…visit with them in meaningful ways on a regular basis.
- Are biorhythms really a thing?
- Some swear by them, others consider them a hoax, but…
- … you could benefit from paying more attention to them — even if they don’t exist.
- Leaders, bosses, managers, and supervisors must often deliver sensitive information to employees.
- When and how to best do it?
- Do it early
- Aim for midweek
- More is more; i.e., communicate more often and in (much) shorter clips — as long as it isn’t nagging or micromanagement
- Avoid an ambush (Duh-oh!)
- Quality or quantity; e.g., no dump trucks — think before you dump (Thompson)
- Wanting your next family gathering to be less stressful and toxic?
- Hire a family therapist to join the mix! (O’Brien)
- “You ask why such flight does not help you? It is because you flee along with yourself.” (Seneca)
- The Infinite Work Day, as Microsoft calls it, began as an anomaly with the rise of remote work during the plague,
- but has since become the norm for many who are unable to disconnect completely.
- Microsoft sorted through trillions of data to arrive at its conclusions.
- Forty percent of people on their computers at 6:00 AM are checking work e-mail;
- Workers receive an average of 153 messages per week day;
- Half of meetings take place between 9:00 AM and 11:00 AM and/or 1:00 PM and 3:00 PM, right when people are at their most productive levels;
- Fifty-seven percent of meetings occur without a calendar invite… 10% are booked last-minute.
- Meetings at 8:00 PM (local times) are up 16% over last year,
- and the average employee sends or receives more than 50 e-mails outside of regular business hours.
- The average employee is interrupted every two minutes by an e-mail, message, notification, or meeting…
- … not to mention co-workers just stopping by to chat.
- On weekends, ~20% of employees check work messages before noon.
- Artificial Intelligence could help — and hurt… stay tuned. (Forbes/ Microsoft data, 2025)
- The skills that define great leaders:
- Staying in a good mood in the absence of things to be in a good mood about.
- Complexity kills clarity.
- Employees go where they are celebrated, not where they are tolerated. (Eades)
- In a recent survey of 2,000 people, forty percent of middle-to-senior level employees reported they had no time to reflect on how to plan and prioritize…
- … 24% were too busy to speak about and reflect upon failures…
- … and 59% of them described their meetings as rushed.
- “What is the likelihood they were engaging in high-quality discussions and decision-making? (Reitz/ Higgins, 2025)
- Allegedly the world’s best restaurants; do you agree? How many have you patronized: 50 Best
- I asked my son who gets around to different parts of the world more than most, and even he has been to only two.
- Where does this leave Olive Garden and Red Lobster… while Chili’s continues to gain ground?

